Benefits of Swinging To
Relationships
Excerpted from Secrets
of Swinging by Steve Anderson
No, this chapter is not
just propaganda for the women. It is absolutely true that for
those that approach it properly, there are astounding benefits
derived from swinging to a relationship. In fact, statistically
the divorce rate among swingers, is considerably lower than that
of the rest of the population.
This is not to say that Swingers need to be married. It is better
though if you are a tightly bound couple. Swinging is not
something to do on a date or once a year on your birthday. It is
a consciously adopted lifestyle that requires education,
communication, patience and understanding to be successful.
Doesn't that sound a little familiar? Isn't that also the formula
for a successful relationship? Of course it does. That's just one
of the reasons that relationships and Swinging compliment each
other so effectively. Here are the significant reasons swinging
will benefit your relationship. (assuming you have a healthy
relationship to begin with)
1.Swinging opens lines of communications - Your satisfaction and
longevity in the lifestyle both depend on bi-directional
communications. So that there is no misunderstanding here, that
means not only speaking, but listening.
2.Swinging fosters trust - Your individual trust is like a
muscle. The more you use it, the stronger your trust muscle gets.
Swinging is the perfect opportunity to exercise this muscle in a
controlled environment, with mutually agreed upon rules.
3.Swinging teaches Jealousy management - Jealousy is part of
human nature. There are times when it catches all of us by
surprise. Swinging helps in dealing with jealous feelings by
facing them head on with open communications. Dealing with
jealousy is similar to overcoming a fear. Sometimes the best way
to overcome a fear is to bring it out in the open and face it.
4.Swinging fights cheating - Most swingers will tell you,
especially the guys, that they would be crazy to cheat! Why
should they when they already have the best of all worlds? Most
people cheat to feed their ego or for a change of pace. Swinging
provides numerous avenues to feed
the ego and eliminate boredom.
5.Swinging adds spice to a relationship - Let's face it. Any
activity, no matter how stimulating, eventually gets boring,
without change.
6.Swinging improves sex - Before a swinging encounter the thought
of it makes sex very exciting. After the encounter the memory of
it makes sex better than ever.
7.Swinging provides Experiences - One partner often complains
that they've only been intimate with a very few people in their
life. They regret that they never "sowed some wild
oats." Swinging lets you spread those oats!
8.Swinging is great for role-play and fantasy - Here is a fertile
ground to act out your fantasies and live your dreams.
9.Swinging Teaches - By actually seeing people have sex, you see
what others do. This stimulates ideas for more fun in the
relationship.
I can tell you from personal experience and the experiences of
countless others, that the benefits I'm describing are valid.
People that learn, communicate and are patient improve their
relationships from the Swinging experience.
Excerpted from Secrets of Swinging by Steve Anderson